In a world that celebrates control, achievement, and carefully curated images, the concept of surrender feels almost countercultural. We plan our days down to the minute, manage our reputations through social media, and work tirelessly to ensure our lives unfold according to our designs. Yet in the Christmas story, we encounter a young woman whose life teaches us something radically different about what it means to follow God.

Mary was an ordinary teenage girl living in Nazareth, going about her daily routines—drawing water, grinding grain, learning the skills needed to manage a household. She was engaged to a respectable man named Joseph and likely had dreams about her future wedding and married life. Nothing about her circumstances suggested she was destined for anything extraordinary. She wasn't wealthy or influential; when she later brought the purification offering to the temple after Jesus' birth, she could only afford two doves instead of a lamb—the offering permitted for those of limited means.