Is God Doing It Wrong?
There is a moment most of us have experienced — watching something unfold in a way that seems backward, inefficient, or simply wrong, and feeling the almost irresistible urge to step in and say so. We do it with our families, our coworkers, and if we are honest, we do it with God. We look at the circumstances of our lives, or the state of the world, and somewhere deep in our hearts we think: this is not how I would have done it.
Romans 9 invites us into exactly that tension. It is one of the most challenging passages in all of Scripture, and it refuses to let us stay comfortable. It raises enormous questions about God's character, His faithfulness, and His plan — and it does not always answer them in the neat, tidy ways we prefer. But that discomfort is not a sign that something has gone wrong. It is an invitation to trust someone whose understanding is infinitely higher than our own.
The Anguish of Unfinished Things
The apostle Paul opens Romans 9 with raw, personal grief. He is not writing from a distance about abstract theology. He is writing as a Jewish man who loves his people deeply, who recognizes everything God has given them — the covenants, the law, the promises, the patriarchs, and the Messiah himself who came through their very lineage — and who is heartbroken that so many have rejected Jesus as that Messiah. Paul goes so far as to say he would be willing to be cut off from Christ himself if it meant his people could be saved (Romans 9:3).
This is not the posture of someone who has given up. It is the posture of someone who cares so deeply that the ache is almost unbearable. And it sets the tone for everything that follows. Before we wrestle with doctrine, we are invited to feel the weight of what is at stake.
Hope That Holds: Finding God in the Middle of Suffering
Suffering is not a detour from the Christian life. It is part of the road itself.
That is not the message most of us want to hear. We want a faith that smooths out the rough places, that keeps the storms at bay and guarantees comfortable outcomes. But the ancient letter of Paul to the church in Rome, written roughly twenty years after the death and resurrection of Jesus, tells us something far more honest and, ultimately, far more powerful: suffering is woven into the fabric of following Christ. And because of that, it does not have to destroy us.
The question is not whether we will suffer. The question is what we will do with it when it comes.
Suffering as Identification with Christ
Romans 8:17 describes believers as co-heirs with Christ, sharing in his sufferings so that we may also share in his glory. The original Greek word for "suffer with" carries the meaning of experiencing pain jointly. This is not a cold legal transaction. It is an invitation into intimacy.
Think about what it means to truly know someone. You can hear stories about a person, look at photographs, read about their life. But there is a depth of knowing that only comes through shared experience. When we enter into our own suffering and look for Christ in the middle of it, we come to understand something about Jesus that no mountaintop moment can teach us. He is described in Isaiah 53 as a man of sorrows, acquainted with grief. We do not fully grasp that dimension of who he is until we have walked through grief ourselves.
This reframes everything. Suffering is not evidence that God has abandoned you. It is an opportunity to know him in a way you never could otherwise.
The Good News Has Arrived: Understanding God's Gift of Righteousness
Have you ever stood in front of a mirror and noticed something was off? Maybe there was a smudge on your face or something stuck in your teeth from last night's dinner. The mirror did its job perfectly—it showed you exactly what was wrong. But here's the thing: the mirror couldn't fix the problem. It could only reveal it.
This simple illustration captures something profound about the relationship between God's law and our lives. The law acts like a mirror, clearly showing us where we fall short, but it cannot save us. It reveals our condition but offers no remedy. And that's precisely where the good news begins.
Starting From a Broken Place
The book of Romans makes an uncomfortable but essential point: "All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God." Notice those last four words—"the glory of God." This isn't just about bad behavior or poor choices. It's not merely that we've done wrong things; it's that we've failed to be who we were created to be.
Sin is what we've done. Falling short is who we've failed to become.
This distinction matters because it prevents us from thinking we can simply try harder next time. It's not about fixing a few behaviors here and there. We're starting from a broken condition, a fallen place. Like a car with a faulty engine, the problem isn't just that we're driving poorly—something fundamental needs to be addressed.